Today is the first quiet moment I have had in over six weeks and I realized I had not engaged in one of my favorite activities – Writing! Life has been a fast-paced world wind of excitement, chaos, joy, and hustle recently. This doesn’t even include the elephant in the room at the moment of our current Pandemic of the Coronavirus!
In November my husband and I purchased our first home, started renovations, packed up our old apartment, and made the Herculean effort of moving a quadriplegic to a new home all before the race of the Coronavirus. It has been nonstop for me and I’m elated to find a quiet moment today to get back to what I love.
We are finally moved into our beautiful new home, getting settled in, and trying to make our home finally feel like a home. In short, we have been “Adulting!” I had a singular mission of trying to move into our home, but on the tail end of moving the Coronavirus started moving at accelerated rate – although not before we were able to physically get into our new condo. Thankfully, at present, we are quarantined at home and are both still busy working while still having endless To-Do projects.
My husband, Aaron, has been working tirelessly for the past 9 months and we have barely had time to spend together, so it’s a treat to be able to be locked in the house together. When we don’t feel like it’s such a treat to be locked in together 24/7 — then we have wine 😉
Over the last 10 years I’ve never really been able to take a real shower and having my newly renovated bathroom is a dream come true. Last week I had my ceiling lift installed, which was so fun as I was swinging like a monkey.
Now, I don’t have a shower chair yet as things have pretty much come to a stop from a retail standpoint with the pandemic, but looking at my shower at the moment is equally as gratifying. I’m sure once I take a real shower I will have a different take on it.
The last several weeks have not been without their challenges though as millions of Americans are presently feeling. I lost a caregiver, found a great new one, but am unable to physically work with him yet as we have “stay at home” orders directed by the state of North Carolina. Bringing someone into your home during a pandemic is probably not a brilliant idea considering I have a compromised immune system and less lung function than most.
I’ve spoken to dozens of friends who are disabled and able-bodied, and life generally is not looking rosy for most folks right now. I don’t even know what this country will look like when we are done with this, how we will rebuild, how the financial system is going to recover after a $2 trillion stimulus, but there is one thing I do know. The only way we are going to get through this is if we stick together and not trample thy neighbor for a roll of toilet paper. Continue reading